Jealous Girlfriends

Problems clearly need little to no prompting on our parts before they piledrive their way into your daily life. From the mundane and innocuous to the blatant and overwhelming. My current problem is entirely my own manifestation on account of a: my personality being what it is, and added with b: my girlfriends personality being what it is.

Im of the firm belief that if you have a decent relationship with somone, be it romantic or otherwise (a friendship is also a relationship of a sort) you should strive to maintain that relationship. Obviously sometimes the same bond and same strength cannot be maintained- in the case of previous romantic relationships. Buuuuut (i believe) that while the same bond or same level may not be sustainable one should not cast aside people that have influenced your life for good (and even sometimes for bad- although latter case is tougher).

Situation is this. Im now friends with my ex girlfriend. Who's been in that situation ? You date, it doesnt work- the slit is amicable and you remain friends. Or the split is less than amicable- you war for a while, then you resolve this and become friends. Or the split is cataclysmic, she burns your house, boils your bunny and stalks you every waking hour. In most cases a friendship is salvageable. So...situation....
Ive met with my ex girlfriend twice in the last 46 days. This has clearly been enough times to warrant a "You're always meeting her!" response by my current followed by the unmistakable "SHIIK-SHIIK"of a shotgun being loaded when I informed the current I intended to meet the ex this weekend.

Anywho. I realise a lot of people would say im being insensitive to the requests and neeeeeds of my girl. But at the same time...you know...Kinda poo place to be in. My bad though. I can see the possibility of things getting hairier than a yeti's sack.....but I think these things are workable. Thoughts welcome.